Relationships

Win Your Love Back

Win Your Love BackI believe it’s human nature to want to be in love, and stay in love, it’s a wonderful place to be. Unfortunately, relationships evolve and change; sooner or later they end. But what if we do not want to accept the timing of the end a relationship? Is it possible to get love back? Well, it is possible as long as you don’t make these common mistakes along the way.

The first mistake people often make is being too aggressive in trying to get their partner back. If you are too actively pursuing them, at best, you will be considered a nag and at worst, almost like a stalker. So don’t chase them all around.

A person who is trying to get their ex too aggressively actually comes off looking a little sad. An element of desperation creeps in, dignity and respect for both yourself and your partner is easily lost. There is a fine line between being assertive and making your desires known and stepping across the line and being scary, or wimp who is begging.

Put a little space in the relationship. Try spending just a little less time together for a while and more time on your own. This can help you find your perspective on what may be going wrong in the relationship. When we are very involved with another person, we sometimes lose track of how we really feel. Time spent alone, for both of you, is a good way to discover where your responsibility lies in the relationship problems.

Communication is important in all relationships. If you are upset about something and you are not telling the other person, then you are putting distance between you. This is a prescription for a disaster in any relationship, particularly if you are angry or hurt and you lash out indirectly at the other person. So be honest. Chances are the other person will understand and may even ease your concerns.

We hope those tips may help you out.